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Do you mind the width of them? If not, then you might consider getting a heavy leveling...that'd be a lot less expensive.

As far as a refret....depends greatly on who is doing the work, specs of guitar, locale, type of frets used, etc. But I'd say ballpark of $150 to $400 is fairly common.

What exactly is heavy leveling? I just want it so that the frets are about 3/4 to 1/2 the height that they are now.

With leveling the goal is normally to get the frets level while taking off as little as possible. By "heavy" leveling, I meant that the goal would be to take off a bunch. In other words, if you don't mind the width, then have a tech take off enough so they are 3/4 to 1/2 the height of what they are now.

Do you like to feel wood or are you pushing notes sharp? Jumbo frets definitely take some getting used to, but I have grown to like them.

I have had the guitar since the begining of February, and I still hate them.

You could have something whacky like a hump in the upper part of the fretboard, but I'd venture to guess you probably just need a fret leveling/crowning job done. And if you want the frets to be lower, just have the tech take off more when performing the leveling.

i think you should wait with the refret until you ruin these ones, since it's not cheap.

for now stick with leveling, like the other guys sayd, and a setup.
still, i don't think the size of the frets is your problem...